Personal 70

So I came home early from school today alhamdulilah, & me and my mother started chatting about my cousin because he's going to be getting married this summer -- so it's a HUGE wedding, alhamdulilah. The topic quickly shifted to a couple of my other female cousins who weren't married & how my mother felt bad that they weren't especially one of my close cousin (blood is closer) she's amazing + she's like the all rounded women Ma'sha'Allah but she's not married. Honestly I do feel bad for older sisters who aren't married & really want to get married but look at the blessings they could be getting if they weren't married [THIS IS NOT TO PROMOTE YOU TO NOT GET MARRIED, THIS IS JUST IN CASE PRINCE CHARMING ISN'T THERE] <--had to make that clear. May Allah make me sincere, Ameen. BENEFITS :You have alot of time which equals= seeking knowledge & being at the top of your game! SubhanAllah, what about teaching classes at a local masjid near by, becoming involved in more dawah work w/ other sisters building that sisterly bond. If you have a mahram you can save money & ask them to take you to an Islamic country and leave you there for you to seek knowledge ! That's amazing walahi- tabarkAllah! Whenever Allah wills for them to get married they will, no slave knows what Allah has kept for them so subhanAllah this could all be a blessing for those sisters, memorizing the quran, usool al-thalaltha, 40 hadiths by imam an-nawawi etc. . .list goes on & on alhamdulilah. But you get me right? Some people like in my culture wait a long time to get married because of perusing education and whatnot ..also neglecting marriage so that's why it becomes harder for a person later on to get married & selection is limited, sigh but it's all about how you look at your individual situation..if your thankful Allah will give you more In'sha'Allah. May Allah all give us pious husbands who will lead us to Jannahtul Firdous! Allahumma Ameen<3