I never speak about this topic of "ideal husband" lol but I thought I'd shed some light on some qualities I would love to see in my future husband in'sha'Allah + keep in mind we are all human & therefore make mistakes =P! Hmm, well first off I really would want a bestfriend & thats not to say that I would treat him lower then his stature in the family, but just someone who was understanding & loving at the same time and give me some leisure sometimes! Basically I could talk to him, he could make me laugh -- comfort me when I'm sad & be there for me even if he's busy; basically putting me first & i'd do the same. Looks aren't a HUGE thing to me because I'm sure I'll be attracted & say alhamdulilah to a normal looking guy B/C Righteousness shines to bright &&..lool he has to have the Sunnah Swagg so you already know every male somewhat looks proper while dressed like that; -Ma'sha'Allah *just like every muslimah ;)* ! I don't want the authority of being the "MAN OF THE HOUSE" to get to his head but that he understands & takes advice from his wife; communication is key. I want to be able to have secrets & inside jokes that only both of us could understand, a house full of love& islam && enjoy+discovering life together. AFTER ALL, after my parents+siblings that person would know me inside & out & will experience alot with me In'sha'Allah. So this decision has to be the best made possible ;) -- you gotta find the one that will love you even when your grey&old (old people love is so cute, ma'sha'Allah) & whats also important is that he PROTECTS you..that is crucial subhanAllah-- "men are the protectors of women..." check mark that sisters. Hmm to wrap this up it may look pretty long in this paragraph formation but in all honesty this is attainable alhamdulilah & likewise for brothers outhere wanting sisters like this who will for example..teach your children islam, take care of your belongings + secrets, love you. . .etc/ The 2 must work together.
May Allah make us among those who dwell in happiness in this Life & the Next =)
Allahuma Ameen
xoxo.
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