QUESTION
A
woman prays in her house, having many young children and no
family members or servants to assist her. She feels that her
prayers are always deficient or unacceptable as a result of
her lack of concentration due to the children's constant activities.
What is your advice to her?
ANSWER
by Shaykh Muhammad 'Umar Baazmool, instructor at Umm Al-Quraa
University in Makkah
This
woman, so long as she offers the prayer with its prescribed
manner, after being purified (having wudhoo'), reciting
(Soorah Al-Faatihah), standing, bowing, raising up,
prostrating, sitting, prostrating again, with tama'neenah
(resting fully in each position), then her prayer is valid
in shaa' Allaah.
And
she should feel free of any blame by offering this prayer,
by Allaah's Permission. She (also) gets the reward for all
of her work in the house and taking care of her children.
One
time the Messenger (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam)
was leading the people in prayer in the masjid, and he shortened
the prayer. So they said, "O Messenger of Allaah!
You have prayed in a way that we have not seen from you before!"
or a phrase similar to this.
He
replied (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam):
"I
heard the crying of a child, and I supposed that his mother
was praying with us, so I wanted to free his mother for him." [1]
So
here the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam),
praying one of the obligatory prayers in congregation, shortened
the prayer, showing concern for this child. So in this there
is evidence to support that if a woman was to shorten her
(recitation in her) prayer due to her responsibilities toward
her house or her child, while she has no assistance, then
there is no harm in that, so long as she offered her prayer
in the manner ordained in the Sharee'ah. And Allaah,
the Mighty and Exalted, says [2]:
(
So fear Allaah to the best of your ability )
And
the Messenger (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said:
"...And
when I have ordered you with something, then do as much of
it as you are able."
[3]
Therefore
she offers the prayer to the best of her ability, fulfilling
her duty and thus freeing herself from any blame. In addition,
she will be rewarded by Allaah, the Glorified and Exalted,
for being a good wife to her husband, taking care of the family,
and staying on top of all her responsibilities. By these things
she reaps great rewards and obtains lofty virtues. And by
these things, her reward is with Allaah, the Glorified and
Exalted.
She
will also have a magnificent reward from Allaah, the Glorified
and Exalted, for all her patience and forbearance, (as Allaah
says) [4]:
(
Verily those who persevere will receive their reward without
measure )
FOOTNOTES
[1]
from an authentic hadeeth collected by Ahmad, see The Prophet's
Prayer Described (p.25 of the English version) sallallaahu
'alayhe wa sallam
[2]
the meaning of Soorah At-Taghaabun (64):16
[3]
Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree #7288 (13/317 of Fat-hul-Baaree)
[4]
the meaning of Soorah Az-Zumar (39):10
SOURCE
This
was translated exclusively for www.bakkah.net from a cassette
recording with the knowledge and permission of the shaykh,
file no. AAMB017, dated 1423/6/25.