Wednesday, June 30, 2010

&My Heart Belongs To Allah, So Invoke Him To Let You In It



Bismillah,

Asalamu Alaykum Warahmatuallahi Wabarakatu


The title kinda says it all, but I'll explain myself anyway.
Many people like myself are trying to reach out to Allah(azwa jal) for his Mercy&Love, Alhamdulilah.

May Allah Make Us Among His Awliyaa( Friends of Allah)', Ameen!

[As to those who turn (for friendship) to Allah His Apostle and the (fellowship of) believers it is the fellowship of Allah that must certainly triumph. 5, 56. ]

For every aspect of life we need Allah, he is the Sustainer!
& even in situations where your heart is confused as to how to deal with a matter, the right way meaning the halal way sometimes seems to be hard.

But invoke Allah, ask him, make dua!

Do not be heedless.

He Is Ever So Merciful.


[For Allah is Full of Pity, Merciful toward mankind.
2:143]

Love Allah.
Who can truly say they love Allah? Subhan'Allah I get emotion talking about this because we're all so stuck in this Dunya that we don't realize that we'll one day return to Allah.
So is not Allah worthy of all your Love?

"O you who believe, whoever of you becomes a rebel against his deen (know that in his place) Allah will bring a people whom He loves and who love Him, humble towards the believers, harsh towards the disbelievers, fighting in the way of Allah, and not fearing the blame of anyone who blames."

(Qur'an, Al-Maidah 5:54)

'SO INVOKE HIM TO LET YOU IN IT'
We live in a western society where talking to a male is a custom most often practiced and sadly Muslim youth are no different from Non-believing youth.
A country where the majority of girls say "Oh, he's my bestfriend!" Well if he was any type of friend he would have told you to Fear Allah, and not to practice mingling. & The common, "I dislike having girls as friends because they talk to much (gossip), guys are cooler" If that's the case then wouldn't you be a part of that, being a girl an all...Saah? (right!)
Why do we lie to ourselves or better yet let Shaytan do the thinking for us?


If a brother was really interested in you, he would INVOKE ALLAH for you.
& everything is written.


And of His signs is this: He created for you spouses from yourselves that ye might find rest in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy. Lo! herein indeed are portents for folk who reflect.
(Quran 30:21)


& for males as companions (friends) that's a huge NO.
There is no baraka (good) in it & just weakens your faith, you should feel guilty when sinning. Authobillah, if you don't feel the guilt ..then there is something wrong with your heart.

Black.
Heedless.
Disobedient.

Ask Allah for forgiveness, Allah Knows You Better Then You Know Yourself.

Remember.
HE CREATED YOU!


In my opinion, no one in this life on earth has the right to wreck your relationship with Allah.


'&MY HEART BELONGS TO ALLAH'

"And whatever good you have - it is from Allah; and then, when misfortune comes to you, you cry to Him for help."

(Qur'an, An-Nahl 16:53)


increase your love.
cry late at night for forgiveness.

read the quran more.
go hard on this religion.

One Life, One Chance To Do It Right.


The One In Need of Allah The Exalted,

Qawlan Saqeela

What is blameworthy extremism?


What is the meaning of ‘going to extremes’ in Islam? Is it considered extremism if a woman covers her face or a man lets his beard grow? Is it extremism to adhere to the prophet’s way and refuse every innovated matter in Islam? What it is the implication of the fact that the prophet, peace be upon him, when given two options, would choose the easier one?.

Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly:

The hadeeth which condemns extremism was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Those who go to extremes are doomed.” He said it three times.

Narrated by Muslim (2670).

The scholars have many explanations for what is meant by extremism and those who go to extremes, all of which are in harmony with one another and do not contradict one another. All of them may be summed up as meaning one thing; it boils down to overburdening oneself and being too strict in matters where strictness is inappropriate.

These meanings include the following:

1 – Going to extremes in worship, which leads to excessive hardship. Islam does not enjoin anything but that in which there is ease and tolerance. It forbids excessive strictness in religion. The forms of extremism that people have invented in religion and were listed by the scholars as being examples of extremism are virtually innumerable.

Al-Nawawi said in Sharh Muslim (16/220):

i.e., those who delve too deep and go to extremes, and overstep the limits in both word and deed. End quote.

2 – Introducing innovations into religion, by forbidding that which Allaah did not forbid, and introducing forms of worship and commitments that did not exist at the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/620):

Monasticism and innovated forms of worship which were not prescribed by Allaah and His Messenger are akin to the cases where the mushrikeen and others forbade good things that Allaah has permitted, and examples of the extremism that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) criticized when he said: “Those who go to extremes are doomed” and “If the month were made longer for me, I would have continued to fast without a break so that those who delve too deep would give up their attitude”, such as extreme hunger and thirst which harm the mind and body, and prevent one from doing obligatory or mustahabb actions that are better than that. The same applies to walking barefoot and naked, which harms a person and brings no benefit, as in the hadeeth about Abu Israa’eel who vowed to fast, and to stand always and never sit, and never seek shade, or speak. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Tell him to sit down, and seek shade, and speak, but let him complete his fast.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari. This matter is broad in scope. End quote.

3 – Exaggerated and affected speech, by trying to select words which attract people’s attention, with no meaning or benefit.

Ibn Abi’l-Dunya narrated this hadeeth in his essay al-Gheebah wa’l-Nameemah (Backbiting and malicious gossip), in a chapter entitled Ma jaa’ fi Dhamm al-Taqa’’ur fi’l-Kalaam (p. 15), in which he narrated from ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “That which I fear the most for my ummah is every well spoken hypocrite”

It was also narrated by Ahmad in al-Musnad (1/22) and classed as hasan by the editors of al-Musnad.

He also narrated that ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The prattling of speech is the prattling of the shaytaan.”

Ibn al-Atheer said in al-Nihaayah (5/164):

Those who go to extremes in speech are those who speak in an affected manner.

4 – Indulging in that which does not concern one, asking about that which is inappropriate, and delving too deeply into that which is of no benefit.

al-Khattaabi said:

The one who goes to extremes is the one who delves too deeply into a thing, and burdens himself with looking into it in the manner of ahl al-kalaam, who examined matters that do not concern them, who indulge in that which their minds cannot comprehend. End quote from ‘Awn al-Ma’bood (12/235).

Ibn Rajab said in Jaami’ al-‘Uloom wa’l-Hukam (p. 285):

The one who goes to extremes is the one who delves too deeply and looks into that which does not concern him. Examining and asking too much about the ruling on something that is not mentioned among obligatory duties or haraam things may lead to thinking that it is haraam or it is obligatory, because of its similarity to some duties or prohibitions. Accepting pardon for it or refraining from asking too much about it is better. End quote.

Then Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) mentioned some examples of what we should refrain from asking too many details about with regard to matters of the unseen that are unknown and subtle fiqhi differences, and discussing things that rarely happen, and so on.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said in Sharh Riyadh al-Saaliheen (1/416-418)

The same applies to being too strict in matters of worship, when a person is very strict in prayer, fasting and other things that Allaah makes easy for him. If he is too hard on himself with regard to that which Allaah has made easy for him, he is doomed.

Another example is what some sick people do – especially in Ramadaan – when Allaah has permitted them not to fast when they are sick, and they need to eat and drink, but they are hard on themselves and continue fasting. We also tell these people to apply the hadeeth to themselves: “Those who go to extremes are doomed.”

That also includes what some students do who are focusing on issues that have to do with Tawheed. When they come across verses or ahaadeeth which speak of the attributes of the Lord, may He be glorified and exalted, you see them examining them closely and asking questions that they are not supposed to ask, which the early generations of the ummah, the Sahaabah and Taabi’een and imams of guidance who came after them did not have the habit of asking. So you see one of them examining matters which his is not obliged to examine as a sign of going to extremes or delving too deeply in these matters. We say to these people: If you are content with what the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) were content with, then stop that, but if you are not content with it, then may Allaah never make you content. Rest assured that you will fall into extremism and hardship and stress.

That also includes what some seekers of knowledge do of inserting rational possibilities into the words of some texts. So you will see them say, “Such and such is possible, and such and such is possible” – until the text becomes very confusing and the benefit of the text is lost, and that is wrong. Follow the text as it appears to be and set aside these rational possibilities, because if we examine every text in the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah of His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and try to find all rational possibilities in its meaning, we will have no verse or hadeeth left that one may quote as evidence, and all interpretations may become possible for every text. These rational ideas may be illusions from the shaytaan that he instils in people’s hearts in order to confuse their beliefs and faith – Allaah forbid.

Another example is what some people do who go to extremes with regard to wudoo’, so you see them doing wudoo’ three or four or five or six or seven times or more, when there is no need to do that. Similarly with regard to ghusl from janaabah, you see them exhausting themselves when they do ghusl, putting water in their ears and nostrils. All of that is included in the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), “Those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed.”

Everyone who is too harsh on himself with regard to something that Allaah has made broad in scope [?} is included in this hadeeth. End quote.

Secondly:

With regard to adhering to outward signs of religious commitment and observing the sacred limits of Allaah, and obeying His commands, these are obligations of Islam, and the way to enter the Paradise of the Lord of the Worlds, and no one regards them as going to extremes except one who wants to free himself from the rules of sharee’ah and attack the established rulings. The blameworthy kind of going to extremes is that which goes beyond the laws and etiquette of sharee’ah. How can adhering to it and following it and clinging tightly to it be going to extremes??

The decisive factor with regard to that is the evidence from the Qur’aan and Sunnah. That for which there is saheeh evidence which clearly shows that something is obligatory – such as covering the face and letting the beard grow – or that something is forbidden – such as the prohibition on musical instruments and mixing with women and so on – it is not permissible to describe it as going to extremes or harshness, because that implies accusing the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) – who enjoined us to do it – of going to extremes. God forbid that he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) should be like that.

As for that concerning which there is no text, and is one of the four aspects of extremism mentioned above, then this is what should be criticized and avoided, and should not be confused with the proven, clear rulings of Islam.

Thirdly:

With regard to the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), in which she said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was never given the choice between two things but he would choose the easier of the two, so long as it was not a sin; if it was a sin he would be the furthest of the people from it Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3367) and Muslim (2327) –

It cannot be taken in any way whatsoever as meaning forsaking sharee’ah and falling short in duties. Rather the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was the keenest of people to achieve true submission to Allaah (‘uboodiyyah) with all that it implies. What is meant by “the choice between two things” is with regard to worldly matters where Islam does not command or forbid anything, or matters in which there is a broad choice between what is Sunnah and what is mustahabb. But if the shar’i ruling indicates that something is obligatory or prohibited, then that must be adhered to, without overstepping the mark or falling short.

Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Fath al-Baari (6/575):

The words “between two things” mean, of worldly matters. This is indicated by the words “so long as it was not a sin”, because there is no sin in matters of religion. The words “so long as it was not a sin” mean, so long as the easier of the two did not imply sin. If it did imply sin, then he would choose the more difficult option. In the hadeeth of Anas that is narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Awsat it says: “but he would choose the easier of them, so long as Allaah would not be angered by it.” end quote.

And Allaah knows best.

Islam Q&A

“She Is Definitely Not Good For You In Marriage"


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Ash-Sha’bi related that he one day heard Al-Mugheerah Bin Shu’bah say;

“The only person who defeated me in anything was a young man from a clan of Banu Al-Haarith Bin Ka’b. That occurred when I proposed to a woman from Banu -Al-Haarith. When I did so, a young man from the same clan was seated nearby and heard everything I said.

He then approached me and said, ‘O leader, she is definitely no good for you!

I said, ‘O son of my brother, what is wrong with her?

He said, ‘I once saw a man kiss her (and her not object to that)!

I immediately withdrew my proposal, but then I later found out that that very same young man had married her. I went to him and said, ‘Did you not tell me that you saw a man kiss her?

He said, ‘Yes, I once saw her father kiss her!’

[Taken from "Gems And Jewls", P. 204]

I loved this, had to share it!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Slaughtering In The Name of Who?



Bismillahh,

Asalamu Alaykum Warahmatuallahi Wabarakatu


Subhanallah, its literally 6:20am and I'm wasn't able to fall a sleep after Fajr but anyways I was on Islam QA (www.islamqa.com). A site most oftenly used to answer many peoples questions on various topics marriage, wealth, education so on and so forth.


I was reading question 44730.

& the question was
;When is slaughtering for someone other than Allaah regarded as shirk?

This is a serious topic, holds someones faith together!


TAWHEED: means devoting worship only to Allaah.

& It's ajeeb cause not too long ago my mom was telling me how it was a custom in a east african country ( afwaan, can't give it away) that people would slaughter an animal after a death!

Alhamdulilah, my mom does not hold such events. It's not from Islam & Subahan'Allah it had me confused for a while..Shirk or Not Shirk? That is the question right!

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said:

Slaughter means killing by shedding the blood in a specific manner, which is done in several ways:

1 – That which is done as an act of worship with the intention of venerating the one for whom the sacrifice is done and humbling oneself before him and drawing closer to him. This may only be done for Allaah in the manner prescribed by Allaah. Doing this for anyone other than Allaah is major shirk. The evidence for that is the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Say (O Muhammad): Verily, my Salaah (prayer), my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for Allaah, the Lord of the ‘Aalameen (mankind, jinn and all that exists)”

[al-An’aam 6:162]

Well after reading that question on Islam QA, it made it quite clear that it was wrong. Your probably thinking "Oh, maybe they fed miskeeen people!" Sorry to say brothers/sisters it wasn't ment for them :( Nevertheless, we should give them the benefit of the doubt and this is why there is no safer way then following the Sunnah. If a book had all the answers in it & you were aloud to use it during a test (aka not cheating) ,would you still try to figure it out on your own?

All I'm saying is..Islam is easy alhamdulilah and better yet made simple for us to follow. Extra stuff is just nonsense and it's hard telling older aunts/uncles that their wrong but what if Allah questions us & asks us why didn't we warn them or tell them to stop???


"Enjoin (people) to Al-Ma'ruf (good) and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (evil)." [Quran 31:17]


Insha'Allahh Check Out The Question On The Website!

The one in need of Allah the Exalted,

Qawlan Saqeela

Monday, June 28, 2010

Asalamu Alaykum Warahmatuallahi Wabarakatu


Bismillah,

Finally, made my blog ! Alhamdulilah, I've been stalling for a while now and I'm not sure why. &Plus my friend has an amazing blog which basically pushed me to get my own. It's a new thing for me, haven't done it before. I'm assuming the majority of people have a FaceBook? no. I for one deleted mine a while ago& alhamdulilah I rather give Dawah through my NEW blog. Facebook was just FITNAH! (evil) ..& a truthful speech would be misunderstood, and some views more weirder then others :S Wallahu Alam ( Allah knows best.)

As I'm writing this I have a feeling I'll be having an interesting summer Insha'Allah. My family literally left hours ago to the airport & it's just me and my brother this summer. New experience and a bunch of responsibilities, nevertheless I see it as an opportunity to gain more ILM/Knowledge on Islam & Memorize more Quran. Free time is a blessing indeed and should be used wisely.

The Prophet sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam was reported to have said, "There are two blessings in which people are cheated: health and leisure time." [Sahih Al-Bukhari, Book 81, Chapter 1, Hadith No. 6412, p. 1232.]

&Just to give you all an idea of what kind of blog this is...it's basically my opinion on different matters aswell as the Daleel(proof) from the Quran&Sunnah. This blogs purpose is to fill your minds with thoughts of wanting to achieve your highest goals in this religion, learn new things, gain some advice & become a better believer.


"You will not enter Paradise until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love one another. Do you want me to tell you something you can do to make you love one another? Make it a habit to greet one another with "Asalamu Alaykum" - peace upon you". (narrated by Muslim)


The one in need of Allah the Exalted,
Qawlan Saqeela